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  I recently received an e-mail from the motivational speaker and real estate investor Paul LeJoy. He's been wildly successful in real estate sales and has mentored and worked with dozens of entrepreneurs.


爱学习   In his e-mail, LeJoy identified eight pitfalls that lie athwart every pathway to success. His thoughts were so deep and insightful that I edited them and condensed them:



  1. Laziness


  Even with a great idea and the courage to pursue it, your efforts will be for naught unless you're willing to take massive action. Write down your goals and (more important) the action steps you'll take to pursue those goals. Post your vision and plan in your bedroom, bathroom, office. Share it with others, so they'll hold you accountable for delivering on your plan. Make yourself accountable and become the master of your destiny.


  2. Timidity


  Every path to success begins with a great idea. There's only one problem: Great ideas are a dime a dozen. What really matters when it comes to becoming a success is not having the idea but having the courage to transform that idea into reality. This usually means a risk of losing the security of a regular job and risking a steady paycheck. Only the brave ever overcome this first of the pitfalls.


  3. Complacency


  Without passion, even the most compelling vision will wither on the vine. Without passion, your energy and enthusiasm will flag when you encounter inevitable obstacles. Make your passion into an almost physical characteristic of your personality, an inexorable force that keeps you engaged every moment of every workday, bringing you one step closer to the measure of success that you desire.


  4. Distraction


  The modern world clamors for your attention in ever-louder ways, a deluge that can distract you from your course. It takes self-discipline to persevere amidst the noise and haste, to assert your willpower over casual desires and instincts. Channel your emotions, behavior, and desires toward obtaining the reward of success. Remember: Living a life of self-discipline is less painful in the long run than regretting "what might have been."


  5. Doubt


爱学习   Once you've made a decision, doubt is a worm that eats away at your ability to succeed. Life and work can be hard and even cruel. Remember, the race is not for the swift but rather those who persevere. Rather than allowing doubt to seep in and poison your process, you owe it to yourself to remain confident in your vision and your plan. Adapt as needed along the way,but always know that success will ultimately be yours.

爱学习   一旦你做了决定,怀疑就像一种蠕虫病毒,它会侵蚀你实现成功的能力。生活和工作可能会艰辛,甚至是残酷。记住,这场比赛比的不是快,比的是谁更能坚持。不要让怀疑渗入和毒害你,你要对你的愿景和计划保持信心,这是由你决定的。在前进的路上根据需要进行调整,坚信成功最终是属于你的。

  6. Disconnection


爱学习   The old sayings "no man is an island" and "there's strength in numbers" may sound corny, but that doesn't make them any less true. Even with self-discipline, in the long run, you'll need contact with kindred spirits and mentors. Meeting regularly can be a great boost to your morale and provide new perspectives on your approach. The Internet makes it extraordinarily easy to find a coach, mentor, or mastermind group that can provide the emotional support, experience, and wisdom to help turn your vision into reality.

爱学习   “没有人是与世隔绝的孤岛”和“人多力量大” 这两句俗语可能听起来毫无新意,但这丝毫不能影响到它的正确性。从长远来看,即使有了自律,你还需要和亲近的精神领袖和导师进行交流。常常和他们见面可以大大提升你的斗志,并为你的处理方法提供新的视角。互联网使得我们非常容易就找到教练、导师或智囊团,为我们提供情感支持、经验和智慧,帮助我们把梦想变成现实。

  7. Dishonesty


  As you begin to be successful, you'll be tempted to lie, exaggerate, and deceive in order to move your agenda forward. However, taking the easy way of dishonesty has a tendency to sneak back up on you. In the end, it causes far more problems than taking the risk of telling the truth. True success comes when you are a person of your word, when you have a pure conscience, and when you have not cheated others on your way to the top.

爱学习   当你开始向成功努力时,为了不落下进度,你就会撒谎、夸大或是欺骗。然而,这种不诚实往往也会让自己尝到恶果。到最后,比起冒险说出实情,它会引起更多的问题。在通往成功的路上,当你言行一致,当你有一颗纯洁的心灵,当你不去欺骗他人,真正的成功就来了。

  8. Ingratitude


  The final pitfall is by far the most dangerous, because it's so easy to miss. When your vision becomes a reality, you arestill a failure if you cannot remember your humble beginnings or recognize the contributions of those who helped you along the way. Remember: There is no such thing as a self-made billionaire. If you can't experience gratitude, you might as well have stayed exactly where you started.


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